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Empty Nesters!!!
Have we forgotten this stage of Motherhood? She's gone and the job I've had for 18 years is no more. I don't know how to be anything other than a Mom. It is who I am. It is my whole identity. What now? I am lost and have no idea how to redirect my life and my purpose. What now? What now? What now?
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You're still a mother no matter what. My mom is a daily part of my life, and she lives 700 miles away.
Funny, I have a long time before I get to that stage. My girl is only four. But a girlfriend of mine who had her baby right after high school, is already dealing with empty nest syndrome. Her girl is off to college and work, and I asked her what it's like, not being "needed" all hours of the day. She said, she still needs me. I just have more time to myself, which is kinda nice.
Enjoy your time. Find yourself a hobby or new adventure. Join a group and get out more. Hey, it could be worse. My brother is 40 years old, and still lives with my Mom!
Hi Wisegirl.... I wanted to respond to your post cuz I too am an empty nester. Sounds like your nest has become vacant more recently than mine, as my youngest is now 24. But I wanted to support you in your journey and let you know that you'll always be Mom. My kids (all 3 of them) have needed me as much as ever as they have navigated moving into adulthood. It's truly a never-ending job! Please keep me posted on how things are going and remember 'once a Mom always a Mom.'